How to Choose Your First Sex Toy.
I keep hinting at why you should be
incorporating sex toys into your play and with a bit of luck you’ve almost made
the decision to buy your first toy – Congratulations!
I know that the next step is quite
daunting! You’ve browsed the sex toys,
checked out a few buyers’ guides and now know exactly what a cock ring does,
you may even have decided if you’re a clit or G-Spot girl, but how do you
actually choose a sex toy for yourself?
Stores like Lola Montez, have made it ultra
easy for you to choose the right first time sex toy. If you are close to one of
these stores, lovely consultants will assist you and you will be able to touch
and feel the candidates. If not the Lola Montez website has provided you with
lots of easy-to-read and simple information on the product pages.
Size
Size is very important in a sex toy. It
will depend on what you want from your toy? Are you a clit or G-Spot girl? Are
you going to use your toy as a couple or on your own?
If you plan on enjoying clitoral play, then
you’ll want something small in length and girth like an Ammunition Bullet Vibrator, WeVibe Tango or an Egg style vibrator.
If you like the idea of pleasurable
penetration, then you’ll want something with a good length and a reasonable girth
to it, like G Vibe or Natural Clone.
To determine exactly what size is right for
you, consider what you’ve experienced already and what you enjoy most. Massive
dildos won’t feel very nice to someone who has never experienced penetration
and a slim Bullet Vibrator is sure to disappoint a size queen!
Shape
Sex toys are no longer phallic shaped
monsters made from hard plastic (although they are still available and popular.
Many sex toys have been designed by women and are ergonomic in shape, designed to
fit your body perfectly.
These ergonomically designed toys are
extremely popular. They are designed to fit the shape of the body and to fit
into the palm of the hand – See Lelo Lily and the Love Stone.
When considering the shape of your sex toy,
you need to know what you want it to do. If you want a mind-blowing clitoral
orgasm, go for a simple classic vibrator where the vibrations are focused in
the tip.
If you want to experiment with G-spot or
prostate play then you’ll need a toy with a curve at the top of the shaft. Try
the HipG, G Vibe or the Lelo
Gigi.
You have no doubt heard about the Rabbit
Vibrators, made popular by Sex and the City. There are many different types on
the market and are ideal for dual stimulation, G-Spot and Clitoral. If you look
at the design you will see the shaft and on the side the Rabbit (or Bird or
Dolphin). Usually the shaft makes a swirling motion (the further you bend it
the bigger the motion). While all that is happening the Rabbit sits on the Clit
area and vibrates. See Roger Rabbit or Je Joue Fifi. This toy is
not for the nervous novice and the size may scare your partner.
We Vibe, Share Vibe or
Vibrating
Cock Rings are fantastic couple toys.
If you want to enjoy anal, then start with
something small to aid insertion. Ensure that anything that gets inserted into
the anus has a long handle or a flared base, as the anus sucks during orgasm
and you don’t want to be having a trip to the Emergency Room. Try Omega
Butt Plug or Jewel Plug.
If you cannot visit a store near you photos
on the product pages allow you to see exactly what shape the sex toy is and
where it is designed to go. By checking the different photographic views, you
can easily decide if that sex toy will work for you although very often you may
get a surprise at the size – too small or too big so it’s always best to
purchase your first toy in person.
Power
It is actually possible for a vibrator to
be too powerful.
If you’re particularly sensitive, then
something as powerful as a Wand or Pocket Rocket is going to
prove painful rather than pleasurable.
However, if you struggle to orgasm, then
you’re going to want something with a lot of power and multiple functions.
The easiest way to work out the power of a
sex toy is to look at the kind of batteries it takes. The bigger the batteries,
or the more there are of them, the more powerful a sex toy is and the ones that
charge or are attached to the mains, like a pocket palm usually pack quite a
punch.
Reviews
So you’ve slimmed your selection down to a
few potential candidates but what would really push you in the right direction
are the opinions of real life sex toy enthusiasts so read the reviews but
nothing beats trying it out for yourself.
I suggest that you have a couple of toys to
choose from because variety adds spice and you never know what you are going to
feel like for dinner tonight. Happy playing.
If this was too explicit I guess a column on how to have anal sex is out of the question?
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