There is so much
inspiration crap out there - how to love yourself, better your relationship,
how to be your own boss, make money, lose weight, be focused - I'm exhausted
just thinking about the potential my life has and which I am clearly failing
at.
So here is what I
think - there is something to be said for working for a boss. You know you are
going to get a fixed amount at the end of the month. You don't have to worry
where the money is going to come from, all you have to do is live within your
means.
Want to have a nervous breakdown? Have a heart attack or look 20 years
older than you are? Own your own business!
How to love yourself?
Really after all we've been taught about being selfish, proud and arrogant. Get
used to the fact that your worst critic is yourself and that it is the hardest
thing in the world to bloody love someone else never mind yourself.
Lose weight, stop
smoking, exercise? Please if you haven't done it by now you probably never will
so now we back to loving yourself.
So here's a revolutionary thought why not
just despise the fact that you are who you are and that you are never going to
be a supermodel, that you will marry what's available and eventually die some
meaningless death and the fact that you stopped smoking, eating meat and have a
6 pack didn't help one bit.
So this year (and I
try never to swear when I'm writing) - Fuck it - just live - hard, go to work,
be grateful, eat bacon, dance and tell everyone that of course you love
yourself. Who wouldn't?
Darling Sharon. You have a unique take on life, as always. Much love x @spicedbrown
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