We Vibe 4 Plus - Is it worth it?

We-Vibe® 4 Plus

Winner of Erofame Toy of the Year 2014.

Since We Vibe hit the market in 2008 they have won every sex toy award around. It has been the world’s best selling vibrator taking over from Roger the Rabbit from Sex in the City fame.

We have now had 5 versions of the toy, with each version improving on the last. They’ve got smaller and the material used to manufacture the toy has changed from a smooth silicone (everything stuck to it) to a brushed silicone which I personally prefer.

The original We Vibe motors were a bit iffy as well. If you let them go completely flat they died. The motors have got better but we still warn clients not to let them go completely flat.

2014 brings us the We Vibe 4 Plus. It looks and feels the same with one BIG addition - The No. 1 couples vibrator now has an app!

With We-Vibe 4 Plus couples can connect in new, exciting ways — whether you’re in the same room or on a different continent.

This is not the first toy to use the internet to enhance the toy. Doc Johnson had a Rabbit that your partner could control over the net. It never really took off in South Africa but that might have had something to do with our lack of broadband. I wonder if the We Vibe 4 Plus will suffer the same fate. I have not had the opportunity to try it yet. 

The We-Vibe 4 Plus is meant to be used together but I found that I enjoyed it more when I used it on my own. Because it is U shaped and has a remote control the We Vibe is a great hands free toy. With the app you can use it on your own (recommended) or together or apart/together.

If you have a long distance relationship, have access to broadband you are ready to go.

With the We Vibe (any version) it is slim enough to use together during penetrative sex. She gets stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and he shares the vibe against his penis.

The original We Vibe’s were fiddly but with the remote control addition with We Vibe 3, using the We Vibe has become a lot easier.

With We-Connect™ Control on the We Vibe 4 Plus you get more remote control features and 5 bonus modes. You can control the clitoral and G-spot stimulators independently. The sliders on the control adjusts intensity. And then this is where this toy gets too clever for me.

Make custom vibration playlists. Choose the vibe, duration and intensity. Name the play list, save and play your custom vibe. There’s a vibe that’s just right for you.

Vibration Modes

Additional Modes

You can play with your lover from anywhere in the world. Send a private, secure connect link — no sign-in required.

When used with the We-Connect app, you have 10 modes to choose from. Plus, you can adjust the intensity and create unlimited custom playlists. This sounds simple enough and I’ll let you know how it goes.

The We Vibe 4 plus comes with a compact, body-hugging couples vibrator curved to fit her body and fit snugly in place. Download the We-Connect app off the iTunes or the Android Google Store, connect, customize and control from anywhere.

The Wireless remote controls intensity and mode of the vibrations. It also comes with a discreet storage case that doubles as the charger base. The charger base is USB-powered and it takes 4 hours to fully charge the toy.   

The We Vibe 4 Plus is 100% waterproof . It is Manufactured from Body-safe medical-grade silicone — free from phthalates, latex and BPAEco-friendly. Carbon-neutral manufacturing and USB-fast rechargeable battery. It charges fully in 4 hours for up to 3 hours of pleasure.

The We Vibe 4 Plus also comes with a 1-year warranty which I don’t think is enough. It is an expensive toy and I’d be pretty pissed if it breaks or doesn’t charge after a year!

For the technical junkies out there here are the technical specs.

App tech specs of We-Connect

•         Works with Bluetooth® Smart
•          Ready devices (Bluetooth 4.0 or greater)
•          Compatible Devices
•          iPhone 4s and newer
•          iPod Touch 5th Gen and newer
•          iPad 3rd Gen and newer
•     iPad mini and newer

Select Android™ devices:

•              Android 4.3 and later
•              Bluetooth Smart Ready
•        More info on supported devices:
•        Connectivity

·         Smartphone remote control  requires active Bluetooth connection.

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      Distance/shared remote control requires active WiFi or cellular data (3G/4G/LTE) connections on both devices.

Languages

We-Connect is available in English, Chinese/Mandarin, Czech, Dutch, French, German, Japanese, Polish, Portuguese, Russian and Spanish.

Watch this space to find out is I managed to get it to work!

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Bonus modes available on the app

CREST	BOUNCE	SURF
PEAK	CHA-CHA-CHA	MY VIBE

Get to know We-Vibe 4 Plus.

We-Vibe 4 Plus

Feature Summary

App adds smartphone control, more modes, customization and distance play Compact, body-hugging form — stiff mid-section, to stay in place Wireless remote control Compact and discrete case for

storage, charging and

TWO MOTORS

WIRELESS REMOTE

100% WATERPROOF

RECHARGABLE

CONTROL FROM
ANYWHERE

100% MEDICAL-GRADE
SILICONE

Like a Virgin

Losing your Virginity – How do you know you’re ready?

I lost my virginity in my second year at university - to a boy I’d been dating since school. It was sweet and passionate. It was well thought out and planned for. And if I had one wish it would be that everyone has such a great experience on their first time.

Children are losing their virginity younger and younger and I often wonder why that is. Is it television? magazines, sex shops? 

Having sex is so much more than the physical and whilst little bodies might be maturing earlier – emotions, psychological development and understanding lag behind.

I have had several discussions with young ladies about their first time and every single one of them said that they had sex because he wanted to and she wanted to know what it felt like.

When I asked what it had felt like the consensus was that it was all a bit sloppy and when he was done it was – well what now?

Sex has become a commodity, traded for airtime, lifts to school, because he took you to movies, because you think you love him, because he wants you to prove you love him – but never really because you want to.

That is just so sad!

So if you are thinking of having sex for the first time, I hope you are doing it for the right reasons – the major one because you want to, because he is worth it and because you are ready.

I hope you know the difference between love and lust –Your body feels things because its biology – it’s meant to!

That warm throbbing feeling between your legs – Biology. He has NOTHING to do with making you feel that way. And this is where I get controversial and generally piss your parents off.

If you know your body, you’ve explored it, loved it, felt it and masturbated you would know just how glorious your body and its biology is.

So when you go to movies and he puts his hand in your lap and it feels wonderful – you will know it is not him – it’s your body – lust not love. And then ask yourself is this the boy I want for the first time? Because there is only one first time.

But now you’ve decided you are going to have sex what do you have to do?

Here are our top tips for losing your virginity.

1                     Safety First. There's no such thing as totally safe sex, but you sure can be safer. Make sure he's wearing a condom (even if you're on the Pill). It may be your first time but it probably isn’t his! Heterosexual women have a higher risk of contracting an STD (sexually transmitted disease) than men. Catching HIV is easier than you can imagine so don’t take the chance EVER.

2                    Enjoy foreplay. All the stuff that leads up to the big moment — kissing, touching, oral sex — is part of the sexual experience; it's not just about penetration.

3                    Discuss your concerns with your partner. Having sex with someone you trust can make your first time a lot less nerve-wracking. Your partner should be considerate of your feelings, focused on making sure you have a good experience, and willing to help you through the process. If your potential partner pressures you too much, or if he or she doesn't seem very concerned about how having sex might affect you, maybe it's best to reconsider.

4                    Breaching your hymen isn’t or shouldn't be painful. Actually, if you do experience pain during your first time, it's probably because you're not used to the feeling of penetration and you're clenching up your muscles or you are not lubricated enough— not because your hymen has nerve endings and chances are it was breached by riding your bike, gym, dancing or horse riding.

5                    If you do bleed, it shouldn't be very much. Any bleeding you experience after losing your virginity should not be on the same level as having a period. Instead, it should only be light spotting for a few hours after. Some girls won't bleed at all.

6                    Make sure you're amply aroused before intercourse (see the foreplay tip above). You want to be turned on, you want to be sufficiently lubricated. If you're too dry, he'll have trouble entering you, you'll feel discomfort, and the friction can cause the condom to rip. So, keep water–based lube on hand just in case.

7                    Don't have high expectations. Sex generally improves as you get to know someone and become more comfortable with each other's bodies.

8                   Speak up. Let him know what feels good, and what doesn't. If it’s his first time you may not have the time to tell him what feels good – but it will get better.

9                    Don't assume he's the expert. He may be getting a lot of his information about sex from porn and big talk with his mates. And, even if he is experienced he probably still knows nothing!

10                Don't fake it. If you do, you'll only be cheating yourself. Letting him know you came close and want to get there with him will keep him motivated.

11                 His penis may malfunction. Guys get anxious too. Premature ejaculation and erectile difficulty are common the first time a man has sex for the first time. If he has a problem, don't make a big deal out of it or worry that there's something wrong with you or your connection. It’s NOT your fault – no matter who he tries to blame and if he blames you – kick him into touch. More than likely, it will work itself out.

12                If you feel like tonight is not yet "the night", don't be ashamed to postpone it. A caring partner will value how you feel above anything else and will not try to rush you into something you are not ready for. If you change your mind, it is okay to say so!

Don't give in to pressure from your partner. It's your decision, not anyone else's. The better your first time experience the better your sex life will be in the future – so take care. And remember there is no rush.

 

Sex positions to spice things up.

7 Sex Positions

1 The Dancer

This is intimate and highly erotic. Put on some music and move to the beat. Best for the shower.

2 The Acrobat aka Reverse Cowgirl

Requires some flexibility and strength on behalf of the woman, but when done right is pretty explosive. You have great access to the clitoris for additional stimulation.

3 The Leap Frog, a variation on Doggie

Not the leap frog you played as a kid, but a lot more fun. Word to the wise - just make sure you use a stable chair or you might get more than you bargained for!

4 The Hip Raised Plank

For Yoga lovers, you can get a workout in while you please your woman. He had better be fit for this one.

5 The Fusion

As if you are fused together, you can move in unison while still maintaining that face to face connection. This position is wonderful for finding just the right position for ultimate pleasure.

 6 The Deep Stick aka Ankles Over

The man can get super deep in this position and the more limber the girl, the better. This is a variation of the launch pad below. This gives you very very deep penetration. 

7 The Launch Pad

Send her to the moon and back with this position. A bit like the Deep Stick above. This just gives you more control over the depth. 

Pictures and descriptions courtesy of http://www.chelsey.co.nz

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Keeping Romance Alive - Week 11

We live in a day and age where lives are busy and schedules are swamped.  The working day is also a little more versatile than it has been in days past, and people are working longer hours or irregular shifts.  

This can put a damper on your love life, but this should not discourage you from enjoying you and your partner no matter what time of day it is.  

Romance is not just for evenings anymore, and here we have a list of 25 things you can do during the day, or during the evening that will help ensure you make the most of every second with your lover.

Week 11

Go skinny dipping!

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