LCS - Question 49

49    Your   most attractive feature is … 

These questions have been taken from a game called Love Conversation Starters. Use them to increase intimacy in your relationship.

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Product of the Week:

Rechargeable Remote Control Vibrators

LCS - Question 46

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LCS - Question 24

24       When I first met your friends I …

These questions have been taken from a game called Love Conversation Starters. Use them to increase intimacy in your relationship.

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Product of the Week:

Big G - G-Spot Vibrator

May is Masturbation Month

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We Vibe 4 Plus - Is it worth it?

We-Vibe® 4 Plus

Winner of Erofame Toy of the Year 2014.

Since We Vibe hit the market in 2008 they have won every sex toy award around. It has been the world’s best selling vibrator taking over from Roger the Rabbit from Sex in the City fame.

We have now had 5 versions of the toy, with each version improving on the last. They’ve got smaller and the material used to manufacture the toy has changed from a smooth silicone (everything stuck to it) to a brushed silicone which I personally prefer.

The original We Vibe motors were a bit iffy as well. If you let them go completely flat they died. The motors have got better but we still warn clients not to let them go completely flat.

2014 brings us the We Vibe 4 Plus. It looks and feels the same with one BIG addition - The No. 1 couples vibrator now has an app!

With We-Vibe 4 Plus couples can connect in new, exciting ways — whether you’re in the same room or on a different continent.

This is not the first toy to use the internet to enhance the toy. Doc Johnson had a Rabbit that your partner could control over the net. It never really took off in South Africa but that might have had something to do with our lack of broadband. I wonder if the We Vibe 4 Plus will suffer the same fate. I have not had the opportunity to try it yet. 

The We-Vibe 4 Plus is meant to be used together but I found that I enjoyed it more when I used it on my own. Because it is U shaped and has a remote control the We Vibe is a great hands free toy. With the app you can use it on your own (recommended) or together or apart/together.

If you have a long distance relationship, have access to broadband you are ready to go.

With the We Vibe (any version) it is slim enough to use together during penetrative sex. She gets stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and he shares the vibe against his penis.

The original We Vibe’s were fiddly but with the remote control addition with We Vibe 3, using the We Vibe has become a lot easier.

With We-Connect™ Control on the We Vibe 4 Plus you get more remote control features and 5 bonus modes. You can control the clitoral and G-spot stimulators independently. The sliders on the control adjusts intensity. And then this is where this toy gets too clever for me.

Make custom vibration playlists. Choose the vibe, duration and intensity. Name the play list, save and play your custom vibe. There’s a vibe that’s just right for you.

Vibration Modes

Additional Modes

You can play with your lover from anywhere in the world. Send a private, secure connect link — no sign-in required.

When used with the We-Connect app, you have 10 modes to choose from. Plus, you can adjust the intensity and create unlimited custom playlists. This sounds simple enough and I’ll let you know how it goes.

The We Vibe 4 plus comes with a compact, body-hugging couples vibrator curved to fit her body and fit snugly in place. Download the We-Connect app off the iTunes or the Android Google Store, connect, customize and control from anywhere.

The Wireless remote controls intensity and mode of the vibrations. It also comes with a discreet storage case that doubles as the charger base. The charger base is USB-powered and it takes 4 hours to fully charge the toy.   

The We Vibe 4 Plus is 100% waterproof . It is Manufactured from Body-safe medical-grade silicone — free from phthalates, latex and BPAEco-friendly. Carbon-neutral manufacturing and USB-fast rechargeable battery. It charges fully in 4 hours for up to 3 hours of pleasure.

The We Vibe 4 Plus also comes with a 1-year warranty which I don’t think is enough. It is an expensive toy and I’d be pretty pissed if it breaks or doesn’t charge after a year!

For the technical junkies out there here are the technical specs.

App tech specs of We-Connect

•         Works with Bluetooth® Smart
•          Ready devices (Bluetooth 4.0 or greater)
•          Compatible Devices
•          iPhone 4s and newer
•          iPod Touch 5th Gen and newer
•          iPad 3rd Gen and newer
•     iPad mini and newer

Select Android™ devices:

•              Android 4.3 and later
•              Bluetooth Smart Ready
•        More info on supported devices:
•        Connectivity

·         Smartphone remote control  requires active Bluetooth connection.

·        

      Distance/shared remote control requires active WiFi or cellular data (3G/4G/LTE) connections on both devices.

Languages

We-Connect is available in English, Chinese/Mandarin, Czech, Dutch, French, German, Japanese, Polish, Portuguese, Russian and Spanish.

Watch this space to find out is I managed to get it to work!

Apple, the Apple logo, iPhone, iPad and iPod touch are trademarks of Apple Inc., registered in the U.S. and other countries. App Store is a service mark of Apple Inc. Android and Google Play are trademarks of Google Inc. The Bluetooth word mark and logos are registered trademarks owned by Bluetooth SIG, Inc.

 

Bonus modes available on the app

CREST	BOUNCE	SURF
PEAK	CHA-CHA-CHA	MY VIBE

Get to know We-Vibe 4 Plus.

We-Vibe 4 Plus

Feature Summary

App adds smartphone control, more modes, customization and distance play Compact, body-hugging form — stiff mid-section, to stay in place Wireless remote control Compact and discrete case for

storage, charging and

TWO MOTORS

WIRELESS REMOTE

100% WATERPROOF

RECHARGABLE

CONTROL FROM
ANYWHERE

100% MEDICAL-GRADE
SILICONE

Keeping Romance Alive - Week 9

Week 9

Have your own masquerade ball right at home, day or night. No limitations on costumes, or lack thereof, so long as there are masks.

Romantic Date - Loving Lunches

Loving Lunches

If you can't have lunch with your partner in person, be there in spirit. 

Once a week or whenever they need a pick me up pack a special bag of lunch with their favourite food, a love note and an extra treat (sexy photo etc). 

Romantic Date - Let the games begin

Let the Games Begin

Stage your own Olympics of Love. Don your tracksuits and organise an opening ceremony in which you slow dance to your favourite love songs. 

Now let the games begin: Arm wrestle, hula hoop, limbo (how low can you go), or see who can kiss the longest without taking a breath. 

You can also include some more cerebral activities. Do a crossword together. 

At the end of the date award yourselves medals in an appropriately celebratory closing ceremony. 

Romantic date - Getting Ready

Getting Ready

Turn the routine of getting ready for an evening out into a sensuous experience. 

Light some candles and start with a warm soak together filled with Montez Jelly Bath. Give each other a back massage, write messages on each other's back. 

Wash your partner's hair. You may be brave enough to shave each other. Rinse off with a steamy shower. 

At this stage you will be ready razzle or maybe you just want to stay at home. 

Romantic Date - Fantasy date

Fantasy Date

Set the mood for this inhibition loosening adventure by dimming the lights and putting on some soft music. 

With the mood set and your senses softened, pull out a stack of blank cards and write down a different sexual fantasy or sensual request on each card. 

Now put them in a silk pouch or a sexy pillow case. Take turns to pick out a card and doing what it says. 

Decide how many times a week or month you want to dive in.

Rampant Rabbits!

Oh how we love Roger the Rabbit, made famous by Charlotte from 'Sex and the City'! 

If you've never seen it you should watch it! 

Roger has multiplied like -rabbits - one may say! You can now meet Jack, Cousin Jumping and Jessica!

The orgasmic thing about Rabbits is that they stimulate the clitoris and G-Spot at the same time. 

These fantastic vibrators come as simple or complicated as you choose. They can swirl, thrust, vibrate in different intensities and functions. They can take you to the moon and back. 

Watch our YouTube video on Rabbits and Bunnies. 

There is one thing about them though - they do not make tea! 

Romantic Date - Edible Art

Edible Art

Unleash your inner Pablo Picasso in an edible medium. 

Start by undressing each other - stripping to your undies or to a completely naked canvas. Using chocolate, whipped cream and a paintbrush or your fingers, indulge in your inner artist and paint all over your beloved. 

Take some photos for your private portfolio - just remember that any photos posted are there FOREVER and will be used against you. 

Once you have created your masterpieces there are several options of how to clean off your canvases. You can both hop into a steamy shower or you can simply feast on your creation.

Check out the delicious body chocolate made especially for Lola Montez 

Romantic date - Date in a Box

Date in a Box

This can also work if you are involved in a long distance relationship. 

You can have a great date and 'meet' anywhere in the world. Think of a destination you'd both love to visit. Then send a package of items related to your chosen hot spot with a note on the outside of the box not to open it until your partner receives a call from you. 

For example: If you've always wanted to go to Mexico send your partner a package with a picture of you wearing a sombrero - then include a sombrero in the box. A CD of Mexican songs, a Mexican Flag, some edible treats and Tequila! Add pictures of tourist spots, fun facts about these places. 

If you are far away from each other you can take a 'walk' through these places over the phone. Or sit side by side on the couch. 

Oral Sex Positions - 4

We all deserve the best blow job ever! Try all the positions I've shared with you over the past week. These are the last two in our arsenal!

On The Edge Of The Bed

You can use the edge of the bed during cunnilingus easily. The bed is a great tool to use if you want to get into different oral sex positions, because it’s height, size and shape is perfect. However, remember that you don’t always both need to be on the bed to utilize it. Have your partner lie down on the bed with his head as close to the edge as possible. In fact, he may need to scoot up enough so that most of his head is actually off the bed. You’re going to come in and straddle his face while standing!

Variation: Prop one of your legs up on the bed and lower yourself down onto his face. This may be a little difficult for you to do, but the end result is worth it! He’ll love the full view of your vulva above him!

The New “Woman On Top”

While sixty-nine is a great way to both give and receive oral sex at the same time, if a woman just wants to receive (or a guy just wants to give), this is probably not the way to go. Instead, the woman will lie on top of the man facing the ceiling, scooting her genitals up to his face. Her head will probably rest on or close to his penis, but this one is all about her!

Variation: Lift up your legs to expose your anus to your partner for anal play!

Hope you've enjoyed the tips now go and try them all - Let me know which ones worked best for you.

Romantic Date - Downward Dog

Downward Dog

Take a Yoga or Pilates class for couples together. 

You'll learn a series of stretches that you and your partner can do together. Practice the stretches in beautiful settings. 

As you get in touch with your bodies you might feel inspired to learn more about meditation, breathing techniques and tantric sex. 

Okay let's not get me started about Tantra!