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Romantic Date - Blind Date

Blind Date

Blindfold your partner and take them to a romantic restaurant or surprise cultural event. Keep the surprises going all evening. 

Arrange for the chef to come and say hello and deliver a special dessert. Get a special bottle of wine. Arrange for a backstage tour at the concert or theatre. 

If you want an extra private date - swop houses with a friend and serve an extra special home cooked meal. 

Romantic Date - Loving Lunches

Loving Lunches

If you can't have lunch with your partner in person, be there in spirit. 

Once a week or whenever they need a pick me up pack a special bag of lunch with their favourite food, a love note and an extra treat (sexy photo etc). 

Romantic Date - Make a Scene

Make a Scene

Together make a list of your all time favourite romantic films. 

What makes these films so memorable? Is it a particular scene? A line? A location? Or a look? 

Write the film's title and a brief summary of what makes it hot. Put these slips of paper in a hat and every Friday night or so, close your eyes and pull one out. 

Plan a date based on the film. For example: Amelie - you could go to a French restaurant and plot all sorts of charming and kind acts to perform anonymously.

Romantic Date - Memory Lane

Memory Lane

Interview couples whom you admire who've been together a long time. 

Ask them about the early days of their courtship. What they did for fun, where they went or what songs were popular when they were dating. Invite them to double date with you. 

Look at old photos, ask them what they think the secret to happiness and a long lasting relationship. Compare notes on what you learnt from them. 

Where do you want to be when you're their age? 

Romantic Date - Full Moon Fun

Full Moon Fun

Each month's full moon can light the way for a great date, no matter what the season. 

Get moonstruck in your own garden, park or beach depending on the season sip either champagne, sherry, hot chocolate, eat sexy food - oysters, strawberries, cherries, chocolate. 

Bring some tunes especially moon tunes - ' Moonlight Serenade, Moon Dance or Fly me to the Moon' to name a few. 

Dance and take a moment to howl at the moon - in duet.

Romantic Date - The Gift of Giving

The Gift of Giving

There are many ways to give in a relationship whether you make a gift of your time, talents, touch, attention, or financial resources. 

Sometimes it means giving up something you want for yourself like skipping an important event in order to be present at an important birthday party or forgoing some appliance so you can both go on a much deserved vacation.  

You'll discover that it is just as good to give as to receive. 

Romantic Date - Young Love

Young Love

If you don't have kids yet volunteer together to baby sit a friend's child or a young relative. 

Plan an activity you know the child will love. A trip to an amusement park or zoo.

Chances are you'll learn something new about your partner when you see them playing with a  child. You'll both have an excuse to regress and run around a playground. 

Not a good idea if you dislike children!

Romantic Date 22 - Date Replay

First date replay

If you've been together for a while relive your first date by revisiting the same places you first went together. 

Talk about how your romance has blossomed since then and what attracted you to each other on that first date. 

If you're in a new relationship start a diary - keep movie stubs etc. Record highlights. Use it when you have forgotten. Be careful you aren't considered a stalker. 

Romantic Date 19 - Strawberries and Cream

Tutti Frutti

Build a date around a piece of fruit. 

Go apple picking, drink cider and bake a pie with your bounty. 

Attend a grape crush at a vineyard. Carve pumpkins together. Make fresh lemonade and sip them from a tall glass on the patio. 

Pick strawberries (there is a farm around Johannesburg where you can do this but I couldn't find the details, so please let me know) and eat them with pancakes or sugar or cream. 

It's Valentine's day

Gifts for Valentine Day

If you have forgotten what today and have not even bought a chocolate - best pop in to Lola Montez and pick up a little something special. 

We have a variety of hampers for him and her. Guaranteed to ensure that you will get lucky!

Romantic date 5

Afternoon Delight

During a very boring work week meet up with your partner to do some sexy lingerie shopping - try Lola Montez. 

Change into the newly purchased items and then head straight back to work. You'll each have a secret to keep you smiling all afternoon.