10 Seduction Tips
Are you trying to seduce a new crush and forgotten how?
Here are some tips to help you this May.
It’s all in the Eyes
When you are talking to your desire, let your eyes stay
glued to his or hers a little longer than necessary - even during silences.
A gaze that lingers awakens primal, slightly disturbing
feelings. It induces the same "fight or flight" chemicals that race
through our veins when we feel infatuation. When you must look away, do so
reluctantly. Drag your eyes away slowly.
This is a particularly good technique for men to use, as
women always want to feel that a man is absolutely fascinated by them.
The Visual Voyage
While
you and your date are chatting, let your eyes do some traveling - but only on
safe ground at first.
Take
a visual voyage all over his or her face, concentrating on their eyes. If he or
she seems to be enjoying your expedition, take small side trips to the neck,
shoulders and torso.
For
girls, take sneak peeks at his body - and when he sees you - pretend you are a
little embarrassed. This should really get his juices flowing and is a great
way to get him to think of you sexually.
For
a man this technique is a little more dangerous, so be wary. If your eyes
travel too far south for too long you'll be in trouble.
Expensive Dining
This is a great technique for a gentleman who intends to
pick up the entire bill on the first date.
Make sure you take your date to an expensive restaurant with
an atmosphere like the one you wish to project - be it elegant, upbeat, cool or
arty. Atmosphere is important because she will transfer her feelings about the
room to you. Also take care how you treat the staff. I judge a man by how he
treats and tips staff.
It may be superficial, but women can judge a man on the
first place he takes them.
Dress to Impress
Even when seeking only a casual liaison, do not go out
dressed like an unmade bed.
Dress as if you are auditioning to be his or her husband or
wife. Men must make sure they are coordinated and dress affluently: women love
good quality clothes on men. A good suit is a bit like porn for women.
Women need to dress alluringly but not slutty. He is going
to mentally undress you, so there is no need for that short skirt or plunging
neck line. You may want to try a slightly more revealing second layer of
clothes so that you can, at the right moment, be taken off to reveal a bit more
cleavage.
Give First Date Butterflies
When planning your first date or date night, find out what
pulls your date's strings, and then plan an arousing, emotional adventure.
You don't have to go sky-diving, but a little shared danger
is a proven aphrodisiac. A scary movie is an easy way to achieve this - or
perhaps ice-skating, any reason to hold on tight. Afterwards, go out for dinner
or a drink to discuss your shared experience.
Co-react
To capture your desire's heart, you need to share his or her
convictions and show that you feel them deeply.
Watch his or her reactions to outside stimuli, then show the
same emotions - shock, disgust, humour, compassion, etc. This is particularly
important for men, if you don’t share his passion for his favourite team – fake
it! Make sure your reactions suit the mood.
Smile
A simple but crucial technique and I’m not talking about
silly, loud laughter at everything he says.
A smile is the most effective form of body language and a
great way to let somebody know that you are interested in them. As you are
looking at or talking to a member of the opposite sex whom you wish to seduce,
let a soft smile of acceptance frame your lips.
Don't give too quick a smile: just let a slow one float over
your face. This will seem much more genuine - while making your romantic intentions
obvious.
How do you feel about that?
A good tip for men: pluck up some courage and, whatever your
desire is discussing, simply ask her, "How do you feel about that?"
It might seem awkward at first, but woman love to talk about
how they feel and will nearly always
respond enthusiastically.
Women, on the other hand, should wait until a relationship
is on stable ground before asking a man much about his feelings - otherwise
there is a danger of rocking the boat before it is launched.
Have the First Laugh
Another obvious but important technique. Women: make sure
you laugh at his jokes and, when in a group, be the first to laugh. It brings
you closer together. You will probably find yourself laughing at the same joke
for 20 years. It is ALWAYS funny regardless of how many times you’ve heard it.
Men should try and introduce cute private jokes to create a
bond between the two of you. This will help to make you seem like long-time
lovers rather than first-date strangers.
Wear a signature smell
I'm a firm believer in wearing a signature perfume or
cologne. When your desire smells it – you should be the first person he thinks
about.
A word to the wise – understated is better than drowned and
NEVER to the gym at 6 in the morning – it’s just desperate!
