Romantic Date - Creature Comfort

Creature Comfort

If you don't have a furry friend of your own spend an afternoon at your local animal shelter walking the dogs, playing with kittens or volunteer to help out at a fund raising event. 

Besides offering to help out at an understaffed organisation you'll enjoy spending the time together and who knows - fall in love with something else as well. 

Do phone ahead to learn about their volunteering policies.

Romantic Date - Young Love

Young Love

If you don't have kids yet volunteer together to baby sit a friend's child or a young relative. 

Plan an activity you know the child will love. A trip to an amusement park or zoo.

Chances are you'll learn something new about your partner when you see them playing with a  child. You'll both have an excuse to regress and run around a playground. 

Not a good idea if you dislike children!

Romantic Date 25 - F*** Valentine's Day

Everyday Acts

Sometimes the most romantic moments are the result of thoughtful gestures in the middle of a mundane day. 

Spend the day helping your partner take care of necessary errands, particularly the ones they really don't enjoy doing. Wash the car, go to the hardware store, attend to the shopping, dry cleaning. Once you've finished celebrate by taking your partner to lunch or dinner at a place that they've always wanted to try. 

Remembering the other's interest and curiosities is another great way to be romantic. 

So we come to the end of the month of love and I will now go back to a far more reasonable weekly post! I will continue to give you more romantic ideas.

So spread the love!

Romantic Date 24 - Be a kid again

Kidding Around

Plan a date where the two of you get to be kids again. 

Go to a playground and push each other on the swings and merry-go-round. Climb the jungle gym, play hopscotch, jump rope or walk using stilts. get a big pad of paper and crayons and draw each other. 

Trade stories about your childhood: What were your favourite toys, which teachers did you like best and what kind of trouble did you get into. Pack your favourite childhood snacks. My personal favourite is -Flings and Fizzers!

Romantic Date 17 - Silence is Golden

Say nothing at all

Discover the sexiness of silence. 

Plan a date during which neither of you are allowed to speak. Figure out alternatives to verbal communication. 

Use your bodies, make up your own hand signs or scribble notes. 

Spend the afternoon in a row boat. Soak in a hot tub and listen to music. Go on a hike and pay attention to the sounds. Make notes as you go along.

At the end of the date break the silence and discuss all the happenings. 

Romantic Date 15 - Hold On!

Hold on!

Have a date that's all about holding hands as much as possible - you may even notice other people smiling at how romantic a gesture this is. 

Go for a walk, stroll along the beach or track through a museum. 

Back home give each other hand massages and then wrap your hands in hot towels sprinkled with lavender or lemon juice or smother them with a rich moisturizer. Massage each other's hands until the moisturizer disappears and you're simply left holding each other's hands.

It's Valentine's day

Gifts for Valentine Day

If you have forgotten what today and have not even bought a chocolate - best pop in to Lola Montez and pick up a little something special. 

We have a variety of hampers for him and her. Guaranteed to ensure that you will get lucky!

Adult toy of the month - Cock Rings

Introducing the VCR (Vibrating Cock Ring)

Je Joue Mio - Vibrating Cock Ring

A Lola Montez BEST SELLER!

Maybe you use them on occasion, maybe you don’t. Cock rings are one of those precious gems that most of us know about but never actually use, which is a shame. Rocco Siffredi, one of the most well known adult film stars and director is known for using a cock ring and let’s face it this is where men learn how to have sex!

Using a cock ring helps:

          * Stay ultra hard.

          * Helps him to last longer.

          * Intensifies your orgasm.

          * Make the unit bigger (temporarily).

          * Turn HIM into the vibrator – Oh Yeah!

Watch our YouTube Video on types & uses of Cock Rings.

Selecting a Good Cock Ring

Don’t go and randomly buy a cock ring! Just like picking out a pair of jeans, you need to take a couple of factors into account if you want to find the perfect cock ring for you. Consider how much you want to spend. One's that charge cost considerably more than battery operated ones as do rings in metal versus rubber.

Besides the stretchy vibrating types there are Essensually two types of cock rings:

·         Cock rings that are placed over the penis alone, at the base of the shaft.

·         Cock rings that are placed over the penis, as well as the scrotum (balls).

Which one should you buy? Only you will know because - It’s all about personal preference. 

We recommend you experiment and get one or both before deciding permanently on which one will be your ultimate ‘wing man’.

Here are a few considerations:

Materials

There are several different types of material used in the manufacture of Cock Rings. Whether they vibrate or not also affects which material is used.  

Metal

  

You often see cock rings that are made of some metal. Especially now that the whole 50 Shades of Grey erotic novel hit the scene, marketers are targeting guys to ‘live up’ to the bondage element in the book, Christian Grey, offering a wide variety of ‘hardcore’ cock rings made out of metal. Don’t fall in this marketing trap.

Metal cock rings can be dangerous because unless there is a ‘lock’ at the bottom (which most of them don’t have), it can be a disaster in case you stay hard for whatever reason and want to get it off- you simply won’t because the material can’t bend (obviously). Don't panic!

Word of Caution: If you cannot get the ring off take a Disprin or Asprin which will thin the blood and help. Use lots of lube –it’s a bit like getting a ring off your finger.

Leather

Another type of material you often see is leather. They usually come with a belt-like buckle or a Velcro strip to adjust the grip. Though it is nice to be able to adjust the tightness of the ring, it is usually a hassle to get them on and finally get the right intensity of ‘tightness’.

Silicone/Rubber

  

The great thing about silicone/rubber based cock rings is that they are flexible and adjust to your size automatically because the material goes right back to its original size when stretched out. This makes it easier to use in the heat of the moment and allows for a better fit. This is also the material used for the vibrating variety and a Lola Montez favourite!

How to use a Cock Ring

Place the cock ring on the penis when semi erect around the base (or base & testicles if you got that variant). If you are using a the vibrating variety keep the battery pack at the top (facing the belly Button) this will give her immense pleasure. You can also turn it around and let the vibration tickle your testicles. Keep an eye on the time for obvious health considerations. When it turns blue - you've had enough. 

I often suggest that cock rings can also be used around the fingers for a variety of different play, so use your imagination.

Selecting the Right Size

Selecting the right size is really only important if you are using a solid or metal ring. You don’t want one that is too tight because that will cause pain after ten to fifteen minutes (especially when taking it off) and you don’t want one that is too loose because that won’t help you that much.

As a general guideline:

·         If it hurts after wearing it for 5-10 minutes – its too tight.

·         If it hardly helps you get harder – it’s too loose.

You could measure your girth with a non stretch piece of string (when fully erect) and you will have a general guideline.

After use make sure to clean them afterwards with some warm water & soap or disinfection spray try Eva. Before using it again give it a rinse, especially if you have stored it in a red sock under the green jersey.

As a newby try the Bunny VCR it will make you go from zero to hero in only a couple of seconds. Then you can move onto something more substantial. 

TOP TIP: Remember to trim your pubes because they can get caught up in the process and if you scream like a little girl... not sexy!